How things went wrong

Most of us bring hurts or disappointments into our marriage. We probably have a few unrealistic expectations. Then we develop patterns of reactions that either move us closer or further away from our partner.

Commitment to a relationship fades when hopes go unfulfilled and heart's desires are left unsatisfied. Often these yearnings create tensions and pressure on the partner that destroy intimacy. 

As we move further apart the negative reactions intensify. Fear or anger begin to dominate our behavior and this drives our partner away from us. Meanwhile our need for acceptance intensifies and we began to look outside the marriage for comfort.

Discovering the hidden issues

To create a basis for progress we need to illuminate the issues of the heart and uncover the true motivations that have driven behaviors and choices for many years.

As we bring the light of truth into each partner’s life, we present the opportunity for restoration and wholeness on a fresh and healthy foundation.

Me first

Our first aim is to lead a couple to the point where they are both committed to achieving personal emotional and spiritual wholeness.

With the focus on oneself, rather than the faults of the other, you learn to start making the right choices, which lead by an indirect, but actually more efficient route the fulfillment of your hearts desires and the restoration of the marriage.